life is definitely hard enough without you beating yourself up too… but your also right Ammi, if you want to see a loss at the end of the week/month/year then you very much do have to take ownership of the situation…. remember guys we’re only human, so deal with one day at a time using manageable goals…. and it’s ok to reward ourselves too, but maybe find treats that don’t include calories… like the latest new MAC lipglosses 👄 have ya moment on the lips without the lifetime on the hips 👍🏻😉 xx